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How to HELP yourself or a friend deal with family violence.

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Cycle of Violence - Periods of calm lead to building tension and then into an explosion of violence, followed by another period of calm.In every family afflicted by domestic violence, there is a distinct internal cycle of violence. There are periods of calm followed by a period of building tension. Eventually, the tension becomes too great and an explosion of violence occurs. After the explosive incident, the cycle begins again.

Battering is a learned behavioral choice and is centered around power and control.Domestic violence can include harassment, intimidation, threats, slapping, choking, name calling, punching, isolation, verbal put-downs, shoving, and stalking. In homes where domestic violence uccurs, children are abused at a rate 1500% higher than the national average.

Children in violent families learn from their experience; 30% become violent adults. They often suffer from disrupted development, poor health and poor academic performance.

Fifty-three percent of battering husbands abuse their children too. Abused mothers are more likely to abuse their children than non-abused mothers.

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